Warning

If you think that you possess the power to change someone - you don't. Forget what you see in the movies, forget what you read in books - people with issues NEVER CHANGE! My advice and this is sound advice - if you suspect that your partner has a problem with anything - leave, get out, run away as fast as you can. I don't give a rat's ass for how nice he or she is when they are sober - your life will be a series of ups and downs that always end bad. Trust me. You will NEVER EVER be able to change them despite your ability to talk sense into a rock. It is just not worth the trouble of losing days, weeks or even years on something that will fall on deaf ears. If you think that when they promise change it will happen, it won't. You'll get a day or two - a WEEK if you are that lucky - but it inevitably will go back to the horrific events you are used to. Please listen and take my warning, get out while you can before you waste another day of your precious life.